Ladies and gentleman of Philadelphia it has been awhile since i went on a rant, but I find it super important that I get my thoughts out at this very moment.  I have been noticing more and more guys out at the bar complaining to other woman about their ex girl friends.  This trend or fad, whatever you want to call it must stop immediately.  First off the woman you meet at bars are not your mother, they do not want to hear about how badly your ex girlie hurt you.  I am not saying I have never fallen into this whining bout when I first got out of a relationship but enough is enough.  When you are out at a bar you must try to get past your ex and move on to a greener pasture, there is reasons she is your ex.

Another ex girlfriend curse is treating your new girl just like you treated your old girlfriend.  Sometimes even going as far as to make it as tho they are the same person.  This is a habit of human nature we think since we were with a girl for so long that they are all the same.  This is false and can ruin a date from the get go.  Trust me just this weekend I fell into the trap of this curse.  I was out with this girl and some friends and for no reason what so ever I was being rude to her.  Why was this?  Simple because I was treating her how i treated my ex!

We as men must get past this ex girl friend stigma if we are ever going to have another relationship.  We can not whine to every girl we talk to about how bad we were treated nor can we compare every girl to the old girl.  I know it is hard to break this cycle but the sooner we do the sooner we can have serenity in our lives.  Thanks for listening Philly and hopefully you will take my advice! 

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